THE COUPLE BEHIND MY-TRAVEL
Experienced lifestyle and naturist guides for UK couples
We are a married UK couple with genuine personal experience of swinging and naturism. We created My-Travel to combine a real couple’s perspective with careful, discreet travel research—helping other couples understand the differences, ask better questions and book with more confidence.
Our specialist subjects: first-time lifestyle guidance, couples’ communication and boundaries, naturist etiquette, specialist resorts, lifestyle cruises, privacy and practical UK booking considerations.

Why we created My-Travel
We are a married UK couple and we are both part of the swinging lifestyle and the naturist community. We created My-Travel because much of the information available to newcomers can feel vague, overly explicit or mainly concerned with selling something.
We wanted to build the kind of calm, honest resource we would have appreciated when we first became curious. Our guides combine personal experience with careful research, while recognising that every couple, venue and situation is different.
Our experience informs general guidance about common nerves, communication, boundaries, etiquette, preparation and taking time to reflect afterwards. Where a resort appears in one of our personal rankings, we have visited it together; other club, cruise, event and destination coverage is clearly identified as researched guidance.
When a point comes from our own experience, we say so. Travel information is based on research or information from the relevant venue or operator, while medical, legal and privacy guidance is attributed to authoritative sources.
Swinging and naturism are distinct. Some settings or audiences may overlap, but the activities, expectations and rules should not be treated as interchangeable.
My-Travel is an independent travel-information website. It is not an event organiser, dating service, club, medical authority, legal adviser or relationship counselling service.
How we research our guides
We begin with official resort, cruise line, venue and tour-operator information. We then cross-check important details such as dress codes, guest requirements, accommodation type, dates and what is actually included. Because policies and prices change, readers should always confirm the final details with the operator before booking.
We aim to label adults-only, naturist, clothing-optional and lifestyle-friendly holidays accurately. An adults-only hotel is not automatically naturist or lifestyle-friendly, and a clothing-optional property is not automatically a swingers resort.
We favour useful detail over hype. Where something is uncertain, subjective or based on third-party reports, we make that clear rather than presenting it as fact.
Affiliate links and independence
Some pages contain affiliate links. If you follow one and make a booking, My-Travel may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. This helps to fund the site.
A commercial relationship does not determine how we classify a holiday or whether we recommend checking its rules. We do not accept payment to disguise an adults-only property as a naturist or lifestyle venue.
Updates and corrections
Travel details can change quickly. We review key guides and update them when operators publish material changes. If you spot an outdated date, closed venue, broken link or factual error, please contact us. We will check credible corrections and amend the page where appropriate.
If you are an editor, journalist or relevant travel operator, see how to work with The My-Travel Couple for expert comment, original features, policy checking or an appropriate partnership.
Written and reviewed by The My-Travel Couple. We are a married UK couple with genuine experience in both the swinging lifestyle and the naturist community. Last editorial policy review: August 2026.
Real expertise with privacy respected
Andy writes as one half of The My-Travel Couple and Anita contributes the second partner’s perspective. The photograph on this page is genuinely us, while personal details that are not needed to help readers remain private. Privacy matters in this niche, and we extend the same respect to our readers.
We do not use AI-generated portraits, pretend that stock models are us or present research as a personal stay. When we say we visited a resort, it means we experienced it together.
Our checking standard
- Official operator policies come before affiliate descriptions.
- Naturist, clothing-optional, adults-only and lifestyle are labelled separately.
- Prices and departure dates carry a visible checking date.
- First-hand experience is identified honestly; research is not presented as a personal stay.
- Commercial links are disclosed, and corrections are welcomed.
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